I have read so many articles about how to be a good husband or how to be a good wife. I even came across listings on what to do and what it’s not on a marriage relationship.

The listings are so many that if taken into consideration by a husband like me,  he will end up jumping from one woman to another.

Here are some of the allegedly tips on how to be a good wife:

·  Have dinner ready: Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal — on time. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him, and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospects of a good meal are part of the warm welcome needed.

·  Prepare yourself: Take 15 minutes to rest so you will be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your makeup, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people. Be a little gay and a little more interesting. His boring day may need a lift.

·  Clear away the clutter: Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives, gathering up school books, toys, paper, etc. Then run a dust cloth over the tables. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift, too.

In any way, it helps but not a guarantee. My question is: 

What if she does not cook?
What if she is not refreshing?
What if the surrounding is a mess?
What if?
What if?
What if?

I then ask my wife Elsa that if we follow even 1/3 of the listings, will it be a guarantee that our relationship will last? She said, I don't think so.

Not until we made one condition and it’s only 1 sentence, 2 words and 3 syllables. It is the shortest covenant we both made and it works. It will be the only reason that will separate us together, nothing more, nothing less.

If you can’t figure out yet, read on.  You will know it later.
 

Our 30 years of Marriage

• I don’t treat my wife Elsa like stuff due for return because she is found defective years later. Even stuff when taken cared of & preserved can become expensive antique later.
• Elsa is the usual woman I know 30 years ago in spite of many shortcomings.
• Occasionally each morning when I woke up I heard my wife Elsa on top of her voice screaming with the house helper.
• While viewing my favorite program, Elsa would grab the remote control and without permission changed the channel to her favorite series.
• I hate her when she continuously talks while doing household chores.
  
• She interrupts while I am talking.
• She fights with our neighbors because of dog shit smell.
• She loves spending using her extension credit card.
• There are many shortcomings of her that if I will enumerate all I will be short of page. No matter what Elsa do, pro or against me, she is confident that our marriage will last forever.
• Think of any worst scenario other than unfaithfulness, it won't affect us either.

Effect on Children

• The ultimate beneficiary of loving your wife is your self and your children of course.
• I accidentally saw my photo at my younger daughters’ friendster that says “the best father in the world”. I ask her, why do you say so? And she said because you are a good husband to my Mom & I cried with joy.  Isn’t rewarding? Of course there are more fathers out there far better than me.
  
• My eldest pregnant daughter will give birth this coming July. Guess what my grandchild would say to his grandfather too. Your guess is as good as mine.
• View the 4D Ultra Sound of my grandchild below: